Dainty Diva

Wednesday, September 21, 2005
ARGH! I received an sms this morning and it made me so damn pissed...
I don't know if ABC* (name is changed to protect her identity... haha) reads my blog (i hope not...) but i am really pissed off... and my mood got affected for the whole day!
She's holding her 21st birthday celebrations on the same day as me!! I mean, its quite common for people to celebrate on the same day since its 21st, so a lot of people will celebrate... i personally have received several invitations for parties on the same day... but the ridiculous thing is, her birthday (22 Nov) is like exactly 1 month away from the day of celebration!!!!! Doesn't make sense right?!
I intend to celebrate on 22 Oct (my actual day is on 3 Nov)... already considered quite early liao... but no choice lah, cos of exams... my 1st paper is on 4 Nov!! How lucky, the day after my birthday... anyway, the weekend closest to my birthday is 29 Oct but i think its too close to exams la... don't wanna stress the NTU peeps... so best alternative would be 22 Oct lor... sounds reasonable right?
My friend, ABC, is from NUS so her birthday is during her exam period... i understand she wanna bring her celebration forward also lah... then if she celebrate in early or mid nov, her NTU friends might not attend cos they are having exams... ok, i understand... but of all days, 22 Oct?! And i did mention to her that i will most likely arrange mine on 22 Oct...!! She said the date is good... cos happens to be a saturday and its exactly 1 month away from her actual day... so? not some kind of anniversary mah...
Maybe this is not such a big deal... since we don't have many common friends, only our jc classmates... but still, i am sure this will make things difficult for our classmates... which party to go? And me knowing that she is holding it on the same day, i will be wondering if some of my jc classmates went to hers if they don't turn up for mine... will be very sad de... cos i think this really depends on your 'ren yuan'... haiz...
I thought of changing my celebration date to 23 Oct but i prefer a saturday... will be tiring for those who have to work the next day and also, we have to go to school the next day mah... so saturday is the best... she informed me earlier that she booked her chalet liao so i can't force her to change... mine is most likely at home, so more flexible to make changes... but i admit, i am a spoilt brat lah... i was the one who said i want to celebrate on 22nd 1st, so i don't see why i should give in... hahahah... but in any case, i hope this won't affect our friendship...
So conclusion is... i will still hold mine on 22 Oct as planned... if you do not understand the enitre chuck of rubbish i have typed, its ok... i talked so much crap just to vent my anger, complain and whine... haha...
Didn't want to send out invitation so early cos still quite some time away... like so kiasu... but now... since i have blogged about it, here's the informal invitation to you guys lor... MUST keep the day free ah!! If you all cannot turn up, i will be even more disappointed and upset! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~