Dainty Diva
Thursday, October 27, 2005
I received a rather ridiculous message on friendster... from some stranger... but the subject mentioned in his message concerns one of my friends (though not close)... i totally have no idea why this stranger sent it to me (or to many other friends of XXX) ... i regretted replying...
below is the correspondence between us... pls advice me... shld i continue to reply to side with my friend? Or ignore?
*Names have been changed to protect the innocent
This friend of yours, XXX is such an irritant. He keeps pestering my gf in school at ABC during lectures, and even stole my gf's wallet away from her, and took away all her money. Do you know how rude and irritating he is? Do you understand and know how my gf felt? If such a friend like yours, with such an idiotic face like his, were to steal your wallet and take your money away from you, without asking you first, and without your acknowledgement either, how would you have reacted? Do you understand how irritating a so called "friend" can be, when he keeps talking and pestering you to go to town with him, of all times, during lectures and lessons?He lacks the respect for my gf, and so he does not even deserve any respect himself. Would you ever keep such a friend in your life? Think about it, ponder over it, and let me know. For he is such a tyrant, that such a friend like him should not even deserve to be acknowledged as a friend by others.
I'm so sorry such a thing has happened to your gf. Actually, i do not understand the purpose behind you sending this message to me and i do not know if you had sent this message to other friends of XXX. Did you send this message with the intention of his friends talking to him after knowing what he had done? Or did you send it with the intention to just embarrass him? Or simply asking everyone not to be his friend? Being a 3rd party, i did not witness or experience any of these so i cannot input any comments. No matter what it is, i feel that it is between you people and the parties involved should resolve it among themselves. There is not really a need to spread this matter around. If your gf finds him irritating, she can voice it out to him, asking him not to pester her or just keep a distance away from him.
Hi, my intention is to get this point across through to his friends to help him mend his ways. To give him a good talk, provide positive advice, and make him a better man. If its possible, to also improve his character as well. What I am doing is for my gf's sake, for her own safety. I want her to be in a peaceful, quiet, and safe learning environment as well, so that distractions will not stop her from making progress in her studies. She has been sounding rather distressed over this matter for the past few weeks, concerning this irritating guy, whom she wishes for him to just get out of her life. As you know, I am currently not in Singapore, so this is the best thing I can do to get the message across to him, through his friends. Coz I know that even if I message him personally, he'll still totally ignore me, coz he's only interested in my gf, and view me as just another love rival, arch enemy, or what so ever. I have actually sent him a personal message to warn him not to pester my gf ever again at about last week, but he's still at his bad old ways.I hope that you, being his friend, can help change his mindset and mentality, and also to help improve my gf's situation in school now. So far, he has been the only guy whom she's been complaining to me, getting upset, and stressed over about, that is disrupting her concentration on her studies. She is totally not interested in him at all, and she has told him time and again to leave her alone, but it just doesn't get into his head.Be a kind soul, and help your friend, in turn, you're helping others too. Regards, XYZ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~