Dainty Diva

Thursday, December 15, 2005
Hmm... was on the phone with nana earlier and were bitching about some people... and it inspired me to blog... haha
I remember Tiffi asking me this question once before as her hun doesn't believe in it...
Can there be platonic (i think is this word la... not too sure) relationship between a guy and a gal? Meaning, very normal friendship... Gimme your opinions!!
Seriously, i have quite contradicting views about this... not exactly contradicting lah but more of depending on which guy we are talking about... haha...
When a guy asks a gal out, does he has any motives? Is he interested in the gal?
I tend to think when a guy asks a gal out, there is a motive.... being the most common reason, he is interested in her... apparently nana has the same view as me and idiot JH said we are ladies from the TANG dynasty!! Here i'm talking about a guy who does not know the gal very well yet; barely friends... i'm not talking about the 熟到烂 kind of friends... If is 熟到烂 de friends, of course no problem lah...
If the gal does agree to go out with the guy alone (meaning just 2 of them), does it mean that the gal is also interested in the guy? My personal view is that, if the gal is not interested, i can say 99% she will not agree to go out with that guy... most of my gal friends, including myself, react this way lah... so i presume other gals do that too? If that guy simply puts you off, why bother going out with him? I rather lie my way through, crap some excuses than to sit through a few hours of blood puking moments... haha... I sound so evil... but i mean, its better not to send the wrong signal...
Maybe i am really from Tang dynasty... thats why i'm still in the 'ELOTS club' (Exclusively Left On The Shelf) ... haha ...
Anyway, its 2 more days to 5566's concert! This is their 4th concert i'm going to and this time round, i'll be going there knowing like only 2,3 songs from their latest album... cos i didnt buy it... haha... i think this will be the last 5566 concert i'll be going to cos no longer crazy over them liao... okay, e4 gals don't forget our dinner/concert date on sat! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~